Now that you have clarified your intentions of why you both want to marry, the next question should be, how do we envision our wedding? This is where both of your values, traditions, ideas come together. Envision the images that make you happy, bring forth special memories, etc.
Inspiration can be found everywhere; magazines, websites, weddings you attend, for the type of setting you both would like in regards to the venue, design, color schemes, etc. The ideas are endless. Did I congratulate You both? CONGRATULATIONS!